Spirit Lake Massacre Monument and Graves
Arnolds Park, Iowa
Many American pioneers were unlucky, succumbing to the myriad hazards of the trail on their way to a better life. But of those countless unlucky pioneers, a few were fortunate enough for their story of doom to be enshrined in a monument or museum. The Donner Party lives on, and so do the people hauling those rickety Mormon handcarts.
And then there were the settlers at Spirit Lake, in what is now Arnolds Park, Iowa. By all accounts it was an idyllic spot -- until a band of angry Sioux Indians paid a visit in early 1857. By the time the Sioux had left, 36 of the settlers had been slaughtered, and the only survivors were three young women and one girl: Abigail Gardner. Taken as slaves, one was eventually beaten to death, one was deliberately drowned, and the remaining two were abused until the Indians eventually sold them back to the Whites. Abbie was one of them.
Abigail Gardner tried to live a normal life afterward, but everyone wanted to know about the massacre and her captivity. She finally wrote a book about it, then used the profits at age 47 to return to Arnolds Park, buy the cabin and land, and run it as a tourist attraction. In 1895 she got the state to build a 55-foot-tall granite obelisk at the site. It's impressive, although it's difficult to see among the grove of trees that have grown just as tall around it (The cabin, still standing, is now run by the state as a museum).
The dead that could be found in 1895 were dug up and buried at the base of the obelisk, except for six members of Abbie's family, who were re-laid to rest under a neighboring pyramid of rocks. Abbie and two of her sons are buried next to it, under an odd granite bench that's off-limits behind a spiked iron fence. The massacre spot is now wedged in among lakeside summer cabins and carefree vacationers. Their indifference is excusable, since the monument blends into park foliage in an area favored now for walking dogs.
Abbie's brief time as a Sioux slave was extremely unpleasant, and she had nothing good to say about her captors for many years. Forgiveness, however, apparently came to her in the end; chiseled into the back of her bench is a eulogy that concludes, "orphaned and enslaved by hostile Sioux, she lived to embrace in Christian benevolence the American Indian and all Mankind."