New Brunswick, New Jersey: Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

Lovesick girl waits and waits for her sailor beau, dies, is buried on the spot -- and eventually a multiplex is built around her. Inspired a number one song in 1972. The waiting, not the multiplex.
17 US Hwy 1, New Brunswick, NJ
US Hwy 1 southbound, just south of the Raritan River bridge. In the parking lot behind the AMC Loews multiplex.
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Grave of Sailor's Girl.

Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

Easy to find in back of the parking lot of the movie theater -- you can climb up the raised structure to get a better look. Strange to see something so old in such a modern setting, in a parking lot no less!

[Christine, 03/09/2016]

Parking lot grave.

Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

My family owned the property from the late 1930s until the 1990s. They sold this piece in the 1960s to develop a shopping center -- with the stipulation that the grave plot remain.

There is more than one body in there. It has nothing to do with the song "Brandy."

P.S. My stepdad's company, J.E. Burke Playground Equipment, was there until the end. In the 1940s and 1950s we had an amusement park named Raritan Playland on the same spot where the movie theater now is.

[Jeanette Zeitz, 05/26/2014]

Grave in a parking lot.

Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

The gravesite is a little overgrown, but easy enough to find in the back of the parking lot, on a big brick pedestal (about 8 feet high).

[Patti D., 08/29/2013]
Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

It is surmised that, because the band Looking Glass originated in the New Brunswick area, that their hit song "Brandy" was based on the legend of Mary Ellis. However, in an interview with Elliot Lurie, lead guitarist and writer/singer of the song, the lyrics were loosely based on a girl he knew in real life, and while the stories may be similar, the song has nothing to do with Mary Ellis.

[Wendy B., 07/12/2013]

Spinster's grave in a parking lot.

Parking Lot Grave of Sailor's Girl

Mary Ellis (1750-1827) was a spinster in New Brunswick, New Jersey whose grave now sits six feet above a parking lot.

The oral tradition was that she was seduced by a sea captain who vowed to return to marry her. He never returned and she would come to the spot where her grave now stands, each day, to look for his ship in the Raritan River in New Brunswick, New Jersey.

The song "Brandy" by the New Jersey band Looking Glass is said to have been inspired by the Mary Ellis story. The lyrics include the lines: "Brandy, you're a fine girl. What a good wife you would be. But my life, my lover, my lady is the sea."

Her family home eventually became the site for the Route 1 Flea Market, and later the Loew's Theatre. Her grave now sits in what became the parking lot, and now rests about six feet above the level of the parking lot.

[Jennifer Weaver, 07/23/2007]

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